Should I suck it up and try for #2?

A little background for you. I am a planner. I'm not a fan of surprises. As a matter of fact I have become addicted to my cable system because it gives me preview of whats going to happen on my shows. So this leads me to a BIG ASS question... When should I have another kid? Or should I have another kid?

Look, I love my son, but should I go and muck things up and have another one? He's not the easiest kid to parent, but he sure is cute. I have been going back and forth in my head and out loud sometimes, to people who are willing to listen. Should I do it? It is so exhausting having a little one and now that he is out of the baby phase,he is in toddler phase and it is fun, but do I want to add another baby phase into this picture?

It took me so long to surrender and have the first one. I don't want to wait forever to have a second one, but the more I think about it I wonder if a second one is necessary? I've got a good kid, so far. What if the next one is a nutbag? My current situation is kind of nice, one mouth to feed, one game to play, one set of toys to keep up with, one bootie to clean. I am not a needy person, I am happy with what I have been given. Should I get greedy and ask for more?

I recently read in a book to have another one,so your kid will have someone to talk to about how bad we have screwed them both up. Therefore they will have a someone to bond with for the rest of their lives and never be alone.

I don't know. I guess I'll leave it up to a weak moment with alcohol to make my decision for me. And in the end I'll only have myself to blame.

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I always seem to be griping about things. So today I am feeling pretty good and would like to send props out to all the dads out there. Some of you are actually sweetie pies and some of you aren't, but God love you if you are as fine as David Beckham.....

Ho-Hum, I totally forgot about seeing Sex and the City

So my sissy told me weeks ago to write a review about Sex and the City (SATC) and here I am three weeks later and I am surprised its not on DVD already. Just to give you a little history about moi, I love the show. As a matter of fact, I love it so much that I saw the midnight showing of the, much anticipated, movie on May 30th. The verdict is in and it isn't that great. Like I said before, I love the show. However, the screen version was just all right. Sure the costume design is phenomenal, the city never looked better,but I just didn't feel all warm and fuzzy afterward. Sarah Jessica Parker, Carrie, did a great job with her story, Kristen Davis, Charlotte, did great as well. But, Kim Catrell and Cynthia Nixon,Samantha and Miranda, were not on top of there games. AT ALL. Kim Catrell oozed an attitude, like hurry up and get me off this f'ing set. And Cynthia Nixon didn't seem like she was into it either and unfortunately it showed. There is a positive side to this movie though, which made it worth my $10. And it was making a big deal out of going to see it with one of my dearest friends. She is like me, a stay-at-home mom, who loves SATC and loves before movie drinks, Chocolate Martinis. So if its not on DVD yet, check it out with your girlfriends, or boyfriends, for the clothes, a few good laughs and actually some tears. But bring your barf bag for Miranda's love scene at the end, yuck!
Grade: low C
FYI:Jennifer Hudson is precious in this movie.

I'm blowing the dust off.

It has been a while since I have had a minute to sit and type a blog. I actually had to think of my password. So after blowing the dust off and climbing through some cobwebs, here I am to say that in the last few weeks absolutely nothing has changed. Moms are still moms and kids are still kids. The snotty ones are still out on the loose, the only difference is that they are armed with sunscreen now, hanging out at neighborhood pools, checking out the lifeguards like a bunch of cougars, while swapping stories with other snotty moms who aren't paying attention to their kids. It's such a relief to have a place to talk about these bitches, without having to worry about my son getting black-listed because his mommy can't stand these women. I put up with these women for his sake, but trust me my filter is getting clogged and I am likely to explode soon, so BEWARE. Have a great week everyone!

My Mother's Day Wish

My Mother's Day wish is for a day off. No friggin' kid choppin' at my ankles. No bananas to peel. No boo-boos to kiss. No MELTDOWNS. No "Mommy, Mommy, Mommy". No dirty diapers. No Good Night Moon. No PBS Kids. No bathtime. No cutting up food into tiny pieces. No watching my mouth. No waking up early. (the list is endless)

This is what I want for Mother's Day. NOT A DAMN THING. LEAVE ME ALONE FOR 24 HOURS STRAIGHT!!!! (How cheap is this gift? Its FREE)

Motherhood is 24/7 of non-stop work and all we get is one day of recognition. Puh-leese.

In honor of Mother's Day, I say we all sit back and do NOTHING.

Happy Mother's day to all the moms out there,snotty ones,too....

All Moms Must Find Their Talent (or a hobby).

So I have blogged about my latest and greatest find yet,as a mom, my beloved Hip Hop Class. Yes, I am still at it and recently our little dance group took home platinum ribbons and a trophy for our 2 minute 31 second routine. Who would have thought that all I had to do to get a ribbon and a trophy, after becoming a mom, was to join a Hip Hop dance group? I thought that after carrying a child inside of my body for 35 weeks, would have gotten me, at least, a certificate. It didn't. And my 15 hours of labor, before the doc decided I needed a c-section? You guessed it, NO honorable mention. And of course, I nursed my little munchkin for one WHOLE year. Again, NO RIBBON, NO TROPHY, NOTHING!!! I think that we, all moms, even, the snotty ones, deserve a congressional medal for all of our efforts, our sleepless nights, leaky boobs, episiotomies, c-section scars, endless diapers, endless homework assignments, etc... The duties are infinite.
Since the government won't step in and recognize our efforts, here's my suggestion: Get involved in something that has a beginning and an end. Going to the gym or running doesn't have a championship or recital. I know that being a mother is supposed to be a selfless act and for the most part its actually pretty rewarding, however every now and then its nice to have a little recognition. Since I have found my outlet (Hip Hop class), I am begging all of the other moms to get off the couch, put the chocolates down, blow the dust off of your hidden talents and get moving. If you like to bake, enter a bake off. If you can sing, join a choir or open mic night. If you are athletic, try a triathlon. Anything will do. Who knows, you might get your ribbon or trophy, that is so long overdue. And that ribbon or trophy will symbolize YOU. PLEASE DO IT FOR YOU AND YOU ALONE!!!!